Everybody has their own ideal world. Everybody makes their own world: the rule, the people, the standard of life, the things. And sometimes, they won't other people be who themselves if other people have already entered their world. They want other people to follow the rule and to adjust the standard to enter their life.
I'm not saying I am not everybody. Yes, I am everybody. I have my own rule in my world. I also have some standard to make a friend. I have the list of things that I like and dislike.
Again, I'm not saying I am right. This is only an opinion about people nowadays.